Why is relationship pivotal?
If one molecule is broken, the entire bonding is
affected, and as such, physical and chemical structures are entirely changed.
Behaviour is also changed on a par. Human relationship is more or less like
Take the example of Carbon dioxide (CO2),
where one molecule of carbon is bonded with two molecules of oxygen. If one
molecule of oxygen is broken, it becomes (CO) carbon monoxide. The two gases
are entirely different in all respect such as their behaviour, molecular
structures and functions.
Similarly, bonding in human relationship is quite
indispensable for survival. A home can’t be formed without family. Family is an
assimilation of members of different bent of minds, some of them are amicable,
benevolent and adjustable; on the contrary, some are self-centred and crooked.
Internal bonding of different level of souls plays a pivotal role.
Synchronization of mentality among the souls of members leads to erect a
healthy family. If adversity emerges among the members, the bonding of family
will be disrupted, and the outcome, due to it, will be a house of mere bricks
and cement; no existence of home, very much like a bear garden.
Misconception, squabble and suspicion among members
for considerable period leads to corrode, as such bonding of intimacy among the
members of family gets feeble and disintegrates.
Husband, wife, children, brothers, sisters and
in-laws, make a family. Every member is exemplary and plays important role. If
any one of them is inactive or deprived of his respective role a sweet home
will erode. In consequence of such malevolence, restlessness can be observed on
the face of each member –wandering about in search of companion for healing
solitude, and for sharing intimacy.
In such a condition, involvement of outsider sometimes
becomes intense and interference of such element in the relationship of husband
and wife proves hazardous. Wrangle with spouse is quite natural, but couple
should be conscious of intervention of any foreigner. It is harmful for the
survival of sweet relationship.
Sustenance of intimacy is based on inter-relationship
of souls. Even Almighty Lord desires to have relationship with all creatures,
where love and devotion exists. Saints of elevated soul often shed tears when
their devotees confront with adversity. It is due to their close attachment to
them. Sai Baba of Shirdi, an incarnation of Dattatraya, often shed tears for
his devotees who were confronting with the hardship of life. Sai Nath Maharaj
had close intimacy with his devotees and loved them equally irrespective of
caste, creed and religion. It is a superb paradigm of sweet relationship.
Creating relationship is quite easy, but to carry out
the same is tough. Presence of mind, toleration, sagaciousness and above all confinement
of tongue are vital. It will not be out of place if it is said that sound will
be produced inevitably when utensils are kept on the same shelf; similarly
discord among the members of family is certain, as such, it ought not to be
taken as an issue of apple of discord, nor to be lasted it for considerable
When squabble takes place between husband and wife
–one of the two ought to confine ones tongue; let the opponent allow belching
out his or her vituperation, arrogance and grievances – beware of argument;
else, it will be turned into unpleasant situation, and consequently, it will
adversely affect on the bonding of relationship, and at last, it will start
“Man is a social animal.” –Aristotle stated. If man is
considered as social animal, obviously the necessity of comrade is part and
parcel. Survival in solitude for common man is nothing but hard nut to crack.
Therefore, to get rid of solitude, bonding of friendship and kinship is sine
qua non. Relationship bridges ones thoughts, ideas and feelings with ones
kith and kin. Moreover, by dint of amicable ambiance of relationship prevails
to erect a sweet home.
Every creature of this world can’t survive without
relationship; on the other hand, without partner there is no existence of
relationship. To sustain relationship, amicable behaviour and mutual adjustment
among partners are indispensable. Therefore, relationship is pivotal. Everybody
has to admit the truth of relationship. It is a precious gift of the Almighty.